Do you want your guy to see you as girlfriend material, or just make him think you’re awesome in bed? Knowing and employing this skill we’re about to discuss will send the message crystal clear. Let’s get things started by taking a revealing peek into the male mind.
You can ask any woman what she’s looking for in a partner and she’ll most likely launch herself into a litany of must-haves that’s totally different on each woman in her checklist. However, there is only one trait that is nearly in every guy’s top five characteristics they are looking for in women when adult dating: being adventurous.
Why is this? Almost all men intensely desire adventure, and many of them mistakenly assume that tying the knot and having feelings of comfort and stability in a relationship means giving up on the possibilities of having adventures. This is the reason why, when a guy encounters a woman who not only makes them feel like they don’t have to give up having an adventurous life, but also encourages and inspires them to go on a lot more adventures with them, it’s hot; very freakin’ hot.
It ultimately boils down to showing him that every time he spends time with you, it never gets boring. Guys never want to lead a boring life when in relationships, and adventurous women are never boring.
And by boring, I’m not just talking about climbing mountains or swimming with the sharks. Not all men are into exploring mountains and swimming in the ocean, and may have a different definition of an adventure. It’s probably hot, wild sex, or maybe it’s having a taste of exotic cuisine; perhaps it’s gatecrashing an exclusive party, or going on a spontaneous getaway vacation. You don’t have to be in harm’s way just to get on an adventurous streak. The key is to show him that you are open to new experiences and always willing to go out of your comfort zone when adult dating. So for starters, suggest on splitting that bowl of fish head soup, and be game when he offers to try a kinky new sex position. You may think they may be quite insignificant, but these small gestures send him the message that you are confident and fearless, and that we’ll never reach the point where we have to choose between you and having fun.
And I did mention sex, right? This is a crucial part of this whole shebang. Guys have a natural evolutionary desire to have multiple partners in bed, but a woman who is adventurous enough can basically fulfill their need to hookup with multiple partners. If you’re up to trying new things in bed, then you can give that variety men are hardwired to desire.
Ultimately, if you show guys you possess this characteristic, they will move mountains, swim across raging rivers and cross deserts to win your heart.
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