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It is scientifically proven that it takes longer and harder for women to achieve orgasm than men. And thus, many adult sex ends up with the man having his orgasm while a woman is left unsatisfied. But fear not ladies, because today, we are giving you adult sex tips to achieve your orgasm earlier. Read on and achieve that mind blowing orgasm you’ve been wanting to
1. Woman-on-top When you’re facing your guy yet leaning back at a slight angle, his penis naturally rests against your upper vaginal wall, and even the slightest thrusting means he can easily stimulate your G. Plus, being on top puts you in control of the depth and speed, letting you adjust your guy’s penis so his strokes always hit the spot.
2. Doggie-style This position offers maximum access, especially if you’re lying on your stomach with your legs spread only slightly. Being on your stomach with your legs close together sandwiches the vaginal walls, so it’s almost impossible for your guy’s penis not to come in contact with your G-spot.
3. Missionary Go with this modified version in which you’re on your back with your knees bent and feet resting flat on the bed. Raise your pelvis by propping a few pillows under your butt. Your guy should sit up and enter you, so he’s thrusting at a slightly upward angle, which gives his penis access to your upper vaginal wall. “This way, you’ll feel direct stimulation of your G with each back-and-forth thrust.
The ultimate trick for the Big O

One adult sex trick involving the G-spot tops them all when it comes to a knee-buckling climax: the blended orgasm. To experience a blended orgasm during foreplay, have your guy caress your clitoris with his fingers while he’s massaging your G with one or two fingertips from his other hand. As you get more excited, lift your pelvis to meet his fingers so you’re almost thrusting against his hand. Another toe-clenching move is to ask him to flick your clitoris with his tongue while he’s manually manipulating your G-spot.

Another blended-O position is doggie-style, with you kneeling low on your knees and forearms and your pelvis lifted off the bed, so either he or you can reach your clitoris. Heighten the pleasure even more by having your guy thrust a bit…and then order him to stop so one of you can switch to stimulating your clitoris. Then, ask him to resume but stop again as you brush your clitoris with your fingers. Finally, when you can’t take it anymore, encourage him to stimulate your inside and outside pleasure zones until you surrender to orgasm. Because you’re both involved in bringing you to a blended orgasm, you experience not just deep physical pleasure but a deep emotional connection as well. 

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Ever feel like you and your date have libidos that are stuck in separate lanes? You want more sex, he/she wants intimacy. That’s because people differ on their libidos the way they differ on their personalities. To help you mesh with your adult dating partner, we’ve found the four most common types of Libidos. Knowing what your partner craves will help prevent sexual ruts (if you share similar tastes) and get you in harmony (no matter how different your drives are).

The Sensualists – They use sex to express their love. These hopeless romantics crave lots of eye contact, deep kissing, prolonged foreplay, and post-coital cuddling. Their favorite would be the typical missionary position or the girl on top. If you are adult dating one of these kinds of people, you should definitely respect their wanting for love instead of adventure.

The Adventurers – They believe that if the sex isn’t on point, neither is the relationship. They measure their pleasure by sexual enthusiasm and variety in positions and changes of scenery. There are no limits. You can open the Kama Sutra book and choose any position and they’ll do it on spot. You can have any sex toys on hand to try, have threesome or other variations of sex and they will be game on. People who falls in this category doesn’t mean that they are slutty though, some people who falls here just loves sex but still loves you as much.

The Pleasers – They get off most by controlling the action and gratifying their partners, even if it means that they have to put their own needs on the back burner. People who have their adult dating partner fall in this category are very lucky as their orgasm is their happiness. Just make sure that you still give them their orgasms as well so that you will not be called selfish.

The Thinkers – They love to fantasize which sometimes torpedoes their libidos and makes them very excited and they think of some clever ways to execute sex. But they stress either about their performance or bodies, so they need reassurance if what they are doing is right or whether you love it. 

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It’s a mystery. You see these great guys dating bitchy women and you think, What the hell? Why is he so into her? Well we are sorry to say, but men love bitches. Guys secretly admire women who are willing to throw out the rule book that says you have to cave to their every need to keep them happy. They want a woman who doesn’t assume a subservient spot in the relationship–this instantly intrigues them. And they’ll instantly want to hook up with women like that. Read on to learn hookup tips to be that bitch that guys just can’t resist and why it might not be so bad if you upped your bitch quotient a little this year so that you will have more hook up.

Step 1 to be a bitch: Give him a challenge. Bitchy girls ooze the kind of bravado that says, “I’m so out of your league.” Nothing is more attractive to a guy than a woman who has dignity and pride in who she is and what she wants. Because of that aloof brand of confidence, she isn’t going to spend her precious time cheerfully doting on him. In fact, she may just throw a little attitude his way. Bingo: He instantly wants to inch closer to her. Always wanting what we can’t have is part of human nature, and for single guys, it’s even more magnified.
Bitchy Trick: Don’t make yourself available all the time; don’t call constantly, respond to his e-mails immediately, or leave long, needy voice-mail messages. Leave him wanting more.
Step 2 to be a bitch: Be guy-like in your communication. The mean girl might come across as abrasive in the workplace or at an airport counter, but to her guy’s ears, it’s the kind of talking that makes sense. She’s no shrieking shrew who goes off on him (which men can’t stand, by the way), but she doesn’t tiptoe around the issues, which guys like because they know what they’re getting. The bitch knows what she likes and has an easier time expressing it. As a result, she usually gets what she wants. If they can avoid the dreaded guesswork of what their women want and avoid the ultimate blame for getting it wrong in the end, huge amounts of pressure are gone right there.

Bitchy Trick To Steal: Be straightforward about what you’re thinking, and don’t play games or expect him to read your mind. Speaking up for what you want can be hard for women because they don’t want to sound demanding, but you have to start at the beginning of a relationship since it can be more difficult as time goes on
Try these hookup tips today and be the bitch that men love! Enjoy! 

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One incentive to getting playful: It leads to better sex–no joke. So if you are looking to have a nice hook up, then you need to experience and play out some sex games in bed. To that end, we’ve come up with some bedtime stories to get the good times rolling. The premise? You’re the naughty narrators and authors. We promise you’ll have a great-and frisky-time, plus get new insight into each other’s fantasy lives. Write or print out the following scenarios on a sheet of paper and cut them into individual playing card sizes. Spread them face down. One of you will pick up a card and read the scenario out loud. Next, the narrator should invent the rest of the tale and tell it to the other person. Then, a plot twist: You both have to act out the story. Continue taking turns with the cards, or do one per night or week and your hook up night will be totally awesome!

Scenario #1: We’re at a party, bored as hell. Then, you flash a devilish grin and grab my hand. “Come on,” you whisper. Intrigued, I follow as you weave through the crowd to a bedroom. Once the coast is clear, you pull me inside. With one hand, you lock the door behind us. With your other hand, you… [finish this fantasy]
Scenario #2: I’m out with other people, not home to satisfy you. So, you close your eyes and slide your fingers down your stomach…Suddenly, a hand covers your mouth. You hear “Don’t move.” Your eyes flash open. It’s me, turning to face you. I say, “I know you’re upset. I’ll do anything to make it up to you.” Then, I… [finish this fantasy]
Scenario #3: You hop in the shower after a long day. Soaping up your body, you recall how I touched you in each spot last night, driving you wild. The water pulses over you, arousing every inch. When you get out, your towel is gone. You tiptoe, so wet, to the bedroom. There you see it…covering my lower half. Then, it drops. You… [finish this fantasy]
Scenario #4: We’re on vacation, walking back from the beach, a little sweaty from the sun, a little sticky from the saltwater. Hands intertwined and sand between our toes, we notice a dune off the path, and beside it, a patch of soft grass. Slyly, we glance at each other, then at the same time, rip off our suits. Next, we… [finish this fantasy]
Scenario #5: While at dinner with friends, I feel a hand under the table. You’re turned away in conversation, so it can’t be yours. Then, fingers boldly dive below my clothing. My pulse quickens. Next, there’s stroking, skin on skin, I’m nearly exploding when you look over. You smile deviously. Then… [finish this fantasy]
Scenario #6: I’m still at work when I get a text that reads “911. Need U here NOW.” I race to your place, and the front door is cracked open. I follow a trail of clothing to your bedroom. That’s where I find you: buck naked on a chair, legs open. “Thanks for coming,” you say as I move close. “This couldn’t wait.” Then… [finish this fantasy]
Scenario #7: Leaving a friend’s place, we decide to take the stairs. As we go down, you give a come-hither motion and sprint ahead. Confused, I speed up, my eyes on your ass. I almost catch up, then you stop. Momentum takes over, and my body pins yours to the wall. Panting, I grind into you and hold your arms back so I can… [finish this fantasy]
Scenario #8: We’ve just been to a wedding, and we look pretty damn elegant. As we head to the car, we hear a clap of thunder. The sky breaks open, forcing us to run back to the reception hall and huddle under a balcony. Our clothes cling to our bodies, and you are just begging to be stripped off. So, I… [finish this fantasy] 

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Girlfriends have always formed tight bonds with each other. But lately, a growing number of straight chicks are doing their bonding…in bed. More and more girls hook up with girls nowadays. A recent study by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention reported that 14 percent of women in their late teens and early 20s admit to having had at least one sexual encounter with another woman. Curious about hook up trend? We look into the reasons behind the sudden surge in girl-on-girl seduction.

Taboos barely exist anymore.

When was the last time you were really shocked by someone’s erotic exploits? Celebrity sex tapes? No biggie. Threesomes? Old news! Internet sex? Whatever. “In today’s youth culture, sexual boundaries have shifted. As a result, more young women who date men are having sex with their own gender to satisfy their curiosity and for physical satisfaction. Girl to girl hookups are greater in college. In fact, the preponderance of collegiate girl-on-girl sex is so great, it’s earned its own monicker: LUGs, which stands for Lesbians Until Graduation. College is a time when people test their boundaries. For many, that may come to an end with graduation.

Women’s sexuality is more fluid.

It’s no big surprise that this open-mindedness is gender-specific. “Straight men aren’t as comfortable exploring same-sex relations. Think about it: Can you imagine that a group of guys would identify themselves as GUGs (Gays Until Graduation)? Or better yet, picture your boyfriend getting it on with his best bud. Not going to happen. In part, it’s because they’re not naturally tender with one another, so that physical transition is a real stretch. The fact is, it’s more of a natural shift for females to make that leap. Women are highly intimate with one another, and these bonds can easily spill over into erotic feeling and action.

There’s been a cultural shift.

Another reason for the increase in same-sex lovin’: Hollywood makes it look hot. Consider the hyped bedroom scene between Natalie Portman and Mila Kunis in Black Swan, or even the popularity of songs like Katy Perry‘s “I Kissed A Girl.” Even stars like Angelina Jolie and Drew Barrymore have openly admitted they’ve bedded other girls in real life and loved it. “There’s a cool factor associated with straight women exploring lesbianism,” “The actions of high-profile role models may set a new standard for what ‘hot’ straight women do.”

If you think you want to find out firsthand what all the hype is about and want to hookup with another girl, be sure to explore with someone you trust in an environment where you feel safe and in control. And don’t forget to share your experience here at CitySex. Enjoy! 

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Do you want your guy to see you as girlfriend material, or just make him think you’re awesome in bed? Knowing and employing this skill we’re about to discuss will send the message crystal clear. Let’s get things started by taking a revealing peek into the male mind.

You can ask any woman what she’s looking for in a partner and she’ll most likely launch herself into a litany of must-haves that’s totally different on each woman in her checklist. However, there is only one trait that is nearly in every guy’s top five characteristics they are looking for in women when adult dating: being adventurous.

Why is this? Almost all men intensely desire adventure, and many of them mistakenly assume that tying the knot and having feelings of comfort and stability in a relationship means giving up on the possibilities of having adventures. This is the reason why, when a guy encounters a woman who not only makes them feel like they don’t have to give up having an adventurous life, but also encourages and inspires them to go on a lot more adventures with them, it’s hot; very freakin’ hot.

It ultimately boils down to showing him that every time he spends time with you, it never gets boring. Guys never want to lead a boring life when in relationships, and adventurous women are never boring.

And by boring, I’m not just talking about climbing mountains or swimming with the sharks. Not all men are into exploring mountains and swimming in the ocean, and may have a different definition of an adventure. It’s probably hot, wild sex, or maybe it’s having a taste of exotic cuisine; perhaps it’s gatecrashing an exclusive party, or going on a spontaneous getaway vacation. You don’t have to be in harm’s way just to get on an adventurous streak. The key is to show him that you are open to new experiences and always willing to go out of your comfort zone when adult dating. So for starters, suggest on splitting that bowl of fish head soup, and be game when he offers to try a kinky new sex position. You may think they may be quite insignificant, but these small gestures send him the message that you are confident and fearless, and that we’ll never reach the point where we have to choose between you and having fun.

And I did mention sex, right? This is a crucial part of this whole shebang. Guys have a natural evolutionary desire to have multiple partners in bed, but a woman who is adventurous enough can basically fulfill their need to hookup with multiple partners. If you’re up to trying new things in bed, then you can give that variety men are hardwired to desire.

Ultimately, if you show guys you possess this characteristic, they will move mountains, swim across raging rivers and cross deserts to win your heart. 

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Some are surprising, and some are crazy, but these factors come into play when choosing a partner or even just going for a hook up, like his navel or the color of your outfit. Intriguing, yes? Read on…

Your Scent Should Be Part of the Foreplay
The perfect combination lavender and pumpkin can turn guys on, but you don’t have to drench yourself in lavender oil and bake a batch of pumpkin pies to get that smell. You can create this wonderful scent combination by lighting a couple of candles and spraying these scents on your skin. On the other hand, tell your man to wear cologne that has hints of cucumber or black licorice, since these scents have been found to attract women.

Colors That Are More Desirable
A woman in red is more likely to be asked out on a date and have guys spend more money on her. The reason behind this is men are more influenced by cultural symbols like Valentine’s Day that are related to the color of romance, and are urged by their primal instincts that link the color to sex. This is probably another reason why animals’ butts turn red when they are prepared to mate.

Cocktail Goggles Are Real
When we get drunk, guys look more attractive because we stop noticing the symmetry of their faces. A symmetrical face is attractive because of a biological explanation: A guy with symmetry is less likely to have genetic defects, which ultimately make better mates.

Guys Do This When They’re Into Someone
A guy will subconsciously point his navel toward the woman he wants to hook up with in a room, even if he is engaged in conversation with somebody else. Size up your competition by checking out which of the ladies are pointing their navels at him, since this rule applies to women too.

It’s All About Timing
There may be a time when you might be salivating over that beefy guy you see at the gym, and then you start craving for your slender neighbor the next. The reason? Ovulating women favor guys with more masculine features that can make stronger, healthier children, while menstruating women would go for guys with softer, more feminine looks that look kinder and more considerate. 

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Even if you constantly swear that your exes are completely different, experts say that most women have a hookup pattern they keep going back to. Find out how to break yours for a relationship that won’t leave you in pain.

Most of us have a hook up relationship pattern you know, that same type of guy we keep falling for and it can either work for or against us. It’s not unnatural for women to keep coming across the type of men that wronged them in the past. So how do you change the way you’re drawn to people you hook up with? It’s no easy task, but it all begins with knowing where your attraction to these kinds of guys primarily came from.

According to experts, we develop our taste in men at a young age anywhere between childhood and adolescence. Everyone has a relationship pattern based on what they’ve learned about love while growing up, whether it’s positive or negative.

Choosing the wrong guys repeatedly is a sign that you may be driven to recreate the drama you experienced with your father or first boyfriend. A lot of women with neglectful dads or have let an arrogant basketball team captain trifle with them for years will go for guys who are unavailable or those who talk them down because they are subconsciously trying to resolve things with the men who let them down early in their lives, even if it clearly doesn’t resolve anything.

Women who get involved in these highly vitriolic patterns are hooked on the highs and lows of their hookup relationships and can form what experts call “betrayal bonds. These betrayal bonds cause them to feel more attached to these men who show them extreme and at times dangerous forms of attention. They will eventually feel that a guy doesn’t love them unless they’re getting yelled at in their faces or trying to win them back.

All men have their less-than-admirable moments, but there are major signs that let you know your type is not good for you. Always feeling bad about yourself as you become more involved with a guy is a dead giveaway that something is not right. Look out for these other red flags: the feeling of constantly walking on eggshells whenever you’re around him and having to drop everything just to spend time with him even if you know he won’t do the same. And even only you know what your relationships are really like, pay attention to your friends and family if they disapprove of the men you hookup with.

To change the type of men you are attracted to, you will need to stop believing that what you’ve experienced is how love has to or should be. Ask friends who are involved in a happy relationship how their guy treats them, so you can know what you’re missing out on. Of if you just came off a bad breakup, consider seeking the help of a therapist to make peace with the guy who originally wronged you. And if you need extra motivation, imagine what your life would be in ten years if you’re still at it, choosing men who treat you badly versus guys who will love and care for you, and treat you in a positive way. Your future is for you to decide. 

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According to studies, we all have an adult dating pattern we stick to. It can be of the physical nature, like when you are always drawn to buff guys; or their personality, like when you go for either mysterious introverts or outgoing dudes. Read on for advice given by relationship expert Andrea Syrtash to help you figure out how your adult dating pattern works, and how to tell if it’s right for you.

Why do we form adult dating patterns?
What usually happens is we assign qualities to people that are based on very little information, and then believe that those qualities are what we need in a guy we date. I’ve come across people who’ve said, “I would never go out dating a shy guy,” believing him to be dull and boring, and then realizing after that the person is interesting and fun to be with he just wasn’t as outgoing as their usual type.

How can you tell if the adult dating pattern you’re following is bad for you?
When you date the same type of guys, and then expect different results from the ones that have burned you before, this is an indication that your adult dating pattern is not doing you any good. You should know instantly when your pattern isn’t working well for you if you’re always playing the same disappointing role in your relationships. What you need to do is stop focusing on the guy you’re dating and instead look at who you are whenever you’re with him. Are you more outgoing than usual? Or maybe more confused than ever? Observe how you act when he’s around to find out if your pattern works for you.

How can you break a bad pattern?
First be totally honest with yourself to find out what your pattern is before you can break it. Try asking yourself: If my adult dating life was to be made into a movie, how would it begin and how would it end? What role do I constantly play? You’ll pick up some clues, and you’ll figure out that it’s quite normal to get into patterns, even those that are doomed to fail. After identifying what pattern you’re in, commit to going outside of your comfort zone so you can break this pattern. Try doing things you don’t frequently do and go to places you don’t normally go to meet new people.

Should you go out with a guy who is completely different from your exes?
That’s a resounding yes, and that’s not to say settle for anyone who is less than you want. Think about your three major “must haves” and “can’t stands,” and just be open to the fact that those qualities may come in different packages. 

 
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I am pretty sure you’ve all wondered about your first love back in high school who will forever hold your shared memory of your first kiss, or maybe that cute blonde you spent the whole summer with at camp.

Whoever this old flame is, she is someone who has always left you thinking about what could have been if you decided to stick and hook up with her.

Although it is useless to dwell in the past, guys should always know how to look forward and learn from their errors, if that can be considered. Wisdom grows with time, and the right love comes after going through many heartbreaks. Unless Cupid teamed up with Lady Luck and conspired to give you the perfect romantic bliss, it’s possible you’ll need to have a few attempts before you get it right.

But what if your first time hook up was the best you ever had? How would you know she was your best possible match? The issue arises when you don’t know if she really is your true love, and you only realize her worth after you let her go.

In an attempt to avoid sounding melodramatic, I am trying to paint a picture of how it might feel to have your lady love slip through your fingers like fine powdery sand on a pristine white beach. As much as you want to hold on, it’s simply too late once you’ve decided to let go.

Guys, don’t confuse love with passion and attraction for a woman. Being smitten with a woman does not necessarily qualify her as a perfect hook up partner for you. She could actually be a venomous temptress who can sink her sharp teeth deep into your flesh, injecting her deadly poison.

Still, the best way to go is to live in the moment, and not just in love. You should know how to plan ahead, making sure you meet all your needs in the present. However, taking regular breaks from each other is not the right way to test if the relationship is worth keeping.

What couples should avoid doing is the yo-yo game with their relationships wherein they break up, realize they can’t live without each other, get back together, and then break up again because they become fully aware they were right the first time around.

Just like when milk turns into yogurt, there are relationships that turn sour after a certain period of time. However, the trick here is knowing if it is headed that way. Some love stories end in tragedy, but then again, that’s perfectly normal. 

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