You’ve been spending a lot of time trying to hook up with girls online, but you can’t seem to find a decent match. You’re now wondering if there is something wrong. Is it your profile? Is it the way you break the ice? Fret not! Here are a few essential tips to help you successfully hook up with girls online.
Going Solo
When uploading photos to your online dating profile, make sure to include some where you’re having fun with other people. Nothing says possible weirdo more than a profile with nothing but solo shots of you. Girls will think you have no friends and no other options. Also, don’t include pictures of you all over a variety of other women. It just says you’re either a player or a horn dog.
Expert Tip: Try including at least one photo showing you’re the center of attention in a group of people.
Bad Shots
Photos are very important because they are used to tell others who you are, and they are the first things that women check out at online dating sites, so make sure you look your best in your display picture. Be in clothes that express who you are, and make sure your hair looks nice.
Expert Tip: Look away from the camera! Studies show that women tend to click on a guy’s profile if he’s not looking at the camera in his profile photo.
It’s Not an Interview
In filling out content in your “About Me” section, do not list down your likes/dislikes, Wikipedia facts about you, or characteristics you’re looking for in a woman. It’s boring. Express your personality in your write up by being descriptive. Try telling a funny story that can best express the person you are, or describe an adventure you can go on in one of your dates. Just give them something interesting they can comment on to start a connection.
Expert Tip: Make sure your grammar and spelling are correct. It’s a huge turn off for most women if you’re terrible at them.
Awful Messages
The first message you send can make or break your chances when you hookup with girls online, so it would be best to put some thought into it. Short messages are not the way to go, and so are long boring ones. Write something that will draw out an emotional response, and make sure to keep it fun. Attractive women may receive a lot of messages per day, so try to stand out.
Expert Tip: Using humor is a fantastic way to break the ice and relieve the tension of a first message. Be creative!
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