Is there some form of fiend out there hiding, just waiting to ruin your date hookup relationship this holiday season? This year, it’s time to put your foot down and not let it get to you; or at least be prepared when it does.
You have holiday sex with an ex
Unfortunately, connecting with a past lover is common during the holidays. People get nostalgic during this time. You tend to be drawn towards things that make you comfortable and familiar, and then your ex comes in. If this happens, make sure you both know where you stand. Find out where he stands physically and emotionally. If he is attempting to make New Year plans with you and you’re completely over him, let him off gently. It is more satisfying to turn him down if he was the one who dumped you in the first place.
Your present makes his look small
Don’t think that a small gift means little feelings. You have to accept the fact that some people are just awful gift givers, especially in the beginning of a date hookup relationship. If you have given too much, just think of yourself as generous, and be pleased you made someone happy. But if you’re not that delighted with his “tiny” gift, explore those feelings and talk about it. What you can do is agree to give each other empirical gifts you can both enjoy together like tickets to a football game or a theater production.
You break up just before the holiday season
The key here is not generalizing events that happen this time of the year. There are some people who think that if they’re not with someone on that special day, that means they never will. However, just because you have nobody with right now doesn’t mean you won’t find love. Your whole life does not depend on this. All those pre-holiday breakups only means there are a lot more single people out there than there was a month ago.
You insult his family
Once this shameful deed is done, it’s time for immediate damage control. Don’t just ignore the situation hoping it would go away, because it definitely won’t. You will always be known as the girl who insulted his mother. The only way to get through this is to apologize and make amends, so that everyone can move on.
You have holiday sex with an ex
Unfortunately, connecting with a past lover is common during the holidays. People get nostalgic during this time. You tend to be drawn towards things that make you comfortable and familiar, and then your ex comes in. If this happens, make sure you both know where you stand. Find out where he stands physically and emotionally. If he is attempting to make New Year plans with you and you’re completely over him, let him off gently. It is more satisfying to turn him down if he was the one who dumped you in the first place.
Your present makes his look small
Don’t think that a small gift means little feelings. You have to accept the fact that some people are just awful gift givers, especially in the beginning of a date hookup relationship. If you have given too much, just think of yourself as generous, and be pleased you made someone happy. But if you’re not that delighted with his “tiny” gift, explore those feelings and talk about it. What you can do is agree to give each other empirical gifts you can both enjoy together like tickets to a football game or a theater production.
You break up just before the holiday season
The key here is not generalizing events that happen this time of the year. There are some people who think that if they’re not with someone on that special day, that means they never will. However, just because you have nobody with right now doesn’t mean you won’t find love. Your whole life does not depend on this. All those pre-holiday breakups only means there are a lot more single people out there than there was a month ago.
You insult his family
Once this shameful deed is done, it’s time for immediate damage control. Don’t just ignore the situation hoping it would go away, because it definitely won’t. You will always be known as the girl who insulted his mother. The only way to get through this is to apologize and make amends, so that everyone can move on.
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